Posted by admin on June 30th, 2008 — Posted in Baker's Dozen
Flattery will get you everywhere! Always compliment women and they will always feel good about you, but don’t overdue it or they will think your just trying to score points (which you are, but you don’t want them to know that).
Try to sound sincere by giving her a unique compliment that most people will overlook. For instance, if she looks like she’s just had her hair done, say “I really like your hair, did you just have it done?”.
Also always remember that when it comes to a REALLY HOT woman, never tell her how beautiful she is. Every other guy that has tried and failed with her has said that, so learn from their mistakes and tell her how talented or smart she is. Chances are she has rarely (if ever) received such a compliment, and no matter how beautiful she is… she won’t be able to stop smiling once she hears it: Mission accomplished!
Always be on the look-out for things you can compliment on. I will never cease to stress how important it is to be aware of everything that women say and do, because if you hear and see everything you will never be at a loss for words, and in this case, at a loss for compliments.
Never walk up to a girl you have never met before and open up with a compliment, you should always time your compliment so that it catches her by surprise. You might be thinking “If I open up with a compliment won’t that catch her by surprise?”. Actually yes, but she will view it as a pick up line because you said it before anything else, and by now you should know that pick up lines are a no-no. Instead, try this method that I’ve found to be most effective:
Approach and introduce yourself, a simple “Hi, I’m Bob” would be sufficient. Upon receiving her name, ask a question based on what you observed before approaching (if you did not give yourself a few minutes to observe, you may find yourself at a loss for words). For instance, if you noticed her talking to someone for a while, you could say “Is she a friend of yours?” or “Why haven’t I seen you in here before, your friend comes here once in a while”. When she answers your question, hit her with the compliment, which should also be made based on what you’ve observed. However, you should try to say something funny in response to her answer to your question in order to break the ice before delivering your compliment, if nothing funny can be said (which often is the case) just forget about it and move on to the compliment.
Now you are a master of flattery, get out there and start making women feel good about themselves, which will make them start feeling good about you in return.
By the way, remember to smile when you give a compliment, you will find out that it’s highly contagious.
This article was written by the founder of Becomeaplayer.com known only as The Player. For more articles and free tips on picking up women check out the web site.
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Posted by admin on June 24th, 2008 — Posted in Plugs
As a business, non-profit or association manager, do you
see the value in doing something positive about the
behaviors of those important external audiences of yours
that most affect your operation?
Do you see the value in persuading those key outside
folks to your way of thinking?
Do you see the value in moving them to take actions that
allow your department, division or subsidiary to succeed?
Then you must see the value in good public relations that
alters individual perception leading to changed behaviors
among those key outside people. And further, that helps
managers like you achieve your managerial objectives.
If you see those values, you also see PR’s REAL value.
And you are a lucky manager!
Truth is, you probably should expand your view of public
relations to emphasize the behaviors of your unit’s key outside
audiences rather than publicity placements, special events,
brochures and press releases.
Why should you go to that trouble? Because the people with
whom you interact every day behave like everyone else -
they act upon their perceptions of the facts they hear about
you and your operation. Which means you should deal
effectively with those perceptions (and their follow-on
behaviors) by doing what is necessary to reach and move
those key external audiences to action.
Luckily, your own carefully tailored PR plan can make the
job a lot easier. I’m talking about a plan like this. People
act on their own their own perception of the facts before
them, which leads to predictable behaviors about which
something can be done. When we create, change or
reinforce that opinion by reaching, persuading and
moving-to-desired-action the very people whose behaviors
affect the organization the most, the public relations
mission is accomplished.
Take a few minutes to consider what might result from such
activity. Community leaders beginning to seek you out;
prospects starting to do business with you; customers making
repeat purchases; rising membership applications; fresh
proposals for strategic alliances and joint ventures; welcome
bounces in show room visits; and new approaches by capital
givers and specifying sources not to mention politicians and
legislators viewing you as a key member of the business,
non-profit or association communities.
Who will do this specialized kind of work? Your own public
relations people? Folks assigned to your operation? An outside
PR agency team? But regardless where they come from, they
need to be committed to you and your PR plan beginning with
key audience perception monitoring.
Be certain that the PR people assigned to you are serious about
knowing how your most important outside audiences perceive
your operations, products or services. They must accept the
reality that perceptions almost always lead to behaviors that
can help or hurt your operation.
Go over your PR plan with them, especially how you will monitor
and gather perceptions by questioning members of your most
important outside audiences. For instance, how much do you
know about our chief executive? Have you had prior contact
with us and were you pleased with the interchange? How much
do you know about our services or products and employees?
Have you experienced problems with our people or procedures?
If the budget is available, don’t hesitate to use professional
survey firms in the perception monitoring phases of your
program. But remember that your PR people are also in the
perception and behavior business and can pursue the same
objective: identify untruths, false assumptions, unfounded
rumors, inaccuracies, misconceptions and any other negative
perception that might translate into hurtful behaviors.
With the right PR goal, you should be able to deal handily
with the most serious distortions you discovered during your
key audience perception monitoring. Your new goal could
call for straightening out that dangerous misconception, or
correcting that gross inaccuracy, or stopping that potentially
fatal rumor dead in its tracks.
Now you must take pains to select the right strategy, one that
tells you how to move forward. Keep in mind that there are just
three strategic options available to you when it comes to
handling a perception and opinion challenge. Change existing
perception, create perception where there may be none, or
reinforce it. Since the wrong strategy pick will taste like onion
gravy on your key lime pie, be certain the new strategy fits
comfortably with your new public relations goal. You don’t
want to select “change” when the facts dictate a “reinforce”
strategy.
While it’s tough to write tight and strong, you must write
such a strong message and aim it at members of your target
audience. Because crafting action-forcing language to persuade
an audience to your way of thinking is tough work, you need
your first-string varsity writer because s/he must create some
very special, corrective language. Words that are not only
compelling, persuasive and believable, but clear and factual if
they are to correct something and shift perception/opinion
towards your point of view leading to the behaviors you are
targeting.
Now it’s time to select the communications tactics most likely
to carry your message to the attention of your target audience.
You can do this after you run the draft by your PR people for
impact and persuasiveness. There are dozens available to you.
From speeches, facility tours, emails and brochures to consumer
briefings, media interviews, newsletters, personal meetings and
many others. But be sure that the tactics you pick are known to
reach folks just like your audience members.
As you may be aware, a message’s believability can depend
on the credibility of the means used to deliver it. So you may
decide to unveil it before smaller meetings and presentations
rather than using higher-profile news releases.
Requests for progress reports signal you and your PR team
to begin a second perception monitoring session with
members of your external audience. Many of the same
questions used in the first benchmark session can be used
again. But this time, you will be watching carefully for
signs that the problem perception is being altered in your
direction.
Occasionally, momentum will slow, but you can always
speed up matters by adding more communications tactics
as well as increasing their frequencies.
Thus, what you really want PR’s value to accomplish is to
persuade your most important outside stakeholders to your way
of thinking, then move them to behave in a way that leads to
the success of your unit.
end
Please feel free to publish this article and resource box
in your ezine, newsletter, offline publication or website.
A copy would be appreciated at bobkelly@TNI.net.
Word count is 1175 including guidelines and resource box.
Robert A. Kelly © 2005.
Bob Kelly counsels, writes and speaks to business, non-profit and
association managers about using the fundamental premise of public
relations to achieve their operating objectives. He has been DPR,
Pepsi-Cola Co.; AGM-PR, Texaco Inc.; VP-PR, Olin Corp.; VP-PR,
Newport News Shipbuilding & Drydock Co.; director of communi-
cations, U.S. Department of the Interior, and deputy assistant press
secretary, The White House. He holds a bachelor of science degree
from Columbia University, major in public relations.
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Posted by admin on June 21st, 2008 — Posted in School of Health
The right word for losing your hair is alopecia. The very most recorded sort of hair loss is male pattern baldness and affects nearly a third of guys and females. This sort of baldness is traditionally permanent.
Permanent hair loss comes in a variety of types. Male pattern baldness might well happen in the extraordinarily early part of a males life, with hair loss and baldness beginning to happen as quickly as 19 years. The normal symptoms can often include loss and baldness of hair surrounding the top part of the head and don’t forget at the hairline above the forehead. The result will be partial or full hair loss.
Female pattern baldness is similar to male pattern baldness resulting in permanent hair follicle loss. This sort of hair loss and baldness is usually developed after a mother gives birth to a child. The hormone imbalance generates hair loss although women do not traditionally experience whole baldness.
The last kind of forever hair loss is through Cicatricial. This starts when inflammation in the scalp causes scarring of the scalp and the hair strands fall out permanently and never return. The man might often lose hair in random sections, or even spread all over the scalp. Visit Advanced Hair Studio and get the latest baldness treatments in the studios or for home.
With forever hair loss the incredible solution for legions of girls and guys might well be to try a special hair centre in order to gain back confidence.
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Posted by admin on June 17th, 2008 — Posted in The Marketing Way
If you are a business man seeking to improve your business you have probably thought of marketing your products through the internet. But you perhaps have been struggling to market your business on the web. You have perhaps often wondered how some internet marketers earn a productive income every month but you are still scratching your head to start from scratches.
Internet marketing is amazing not just because of its ability to reach the biggest consumer base or because it can target special groups of consumers effectively but also because it has the capability to gather and process information about people. With the right online tools you can track everything about a visitor when they visit your site. You can learn where they went on your site, what pages they viewed and even what websites they recently visited. By studying and understanding the surfing habits of your visitors you can make adjustments at little to no cost.
For many people, internet marketing is like dieting. Everyone claims to have the solution to losing weight quickly. You try one diet after another and maybe you lose some weight. But as soon as you go off the diet, you gain the weight back again. This is the same way as the Internet. You have probably heard a lot of pitches about how to increase your web traffic. Maybe the strategy you used worked for a little while but eventually it became just too much trouble and the results were disappointing.
By creating and implementing a balanced internet marketing strategy using both short term and long term strategies you will drive a steady stream of traffic to your site. Do not forget though that when going for online advertising information is very important. This knowledge is what makes internet marketing so powerful and effective where advertising is concerned. Words are perhaps the most potent marketing tool you have. The right words will turn your visitors into customers. The wrong words will cause them to click away and never return.
Thus, your every word, sentence and headline should have one purpose - that is to lead your potential customer to your order page. Tell your visitors exactly what your product will do for them. Tell them of the benefits and how and why it will be beneficial to them. The bottom line is write to persuade and encourage your visitors to buy your products or avail of your services.
With the size of the internet market and the number of people it reaches, internet marketing is perhaps a sure way to success but you have to use the online tools that make this medium the most effective advertising medium today.
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Posted by admin on June 16th, 2008 — Posted in Universe Of Management
Please don’t worry; this is not a new question for the SATs but a rather interesting correlation. The New Year is fast approaching (although no one wants to think about it) and soon you will sit down to take a hard look at yourself and to ask yourself some significant questions upon which you will decide on some New Year’s resolutions. Many will stick to your resolutions for a few weeks, some will manage to stick to your resolutions for a few months but the lesser will truly follow through and see their resolutions come to realities.
So what type of resolutions do people make? You all know the answer to that question since for years you have gone through the process New Years after New Years but still here is an example–from January 1st 2006 and on, you make the New Year resolution to stop procrastinating. That’s your resolution because you know you’re guilty of procrastinating and you need to get more accomplished this year. Good enough of a resolution or is it?
When making a New Year resolution did you ever consider and actually ask; what is honestly at the heart of your New Year’s resolutions? Why do you make them? What are you really looking for–is it change and improvement to your life? Is it new direction, objective, and motivation to achieve those goals that for months and years you have been thinking about but not taking any actions on? Is it to discover who you are and what makes you happy?
Let me illustrate. At the heart of why you want to stop procrastinating you find the question: what makes you procrastinate? At the heart of what makes you procrastinate you find the question: what is interfering and sabotaging your drive and desire to get things accomplished? At the heart of what is interfering and sabotaging your drive and desire to get things accomplished you find: the real issues. At the heart of the real issues are solutions, there you find: greater happiness, sense of self, and more success. Now, there is a true resolution and real motivation to stop procrastinating…one you will stick with for the rest of your life.
A New Year’s resolution is to life coaching in the sense that life coaching puts you in touch with what is really at the heart of who you are, what you want and why. Life coaching is about taking and making New Year’s resolutions on a monthly, weekly or even daily basis and following through on each one. Imagine where that could take your life?
The biggest advantage to the coaching process is that you have someone helping and assisting you each step of the way. The number one reason for not following through on “resolutions” is that no one is dedicating their time to supporting you, motivating you and holding you accountable. The Coaching process is uninterrupted time for you, in you and about you.
It’s doesn’t matter what you are trying to do, change, be, improve or accomplish you benefit and add value by taking on a Life Coach as your partner in your quest. Another added bonus is that you don’t have to wait until the New Year to do so, the happier, more satisfied, successful, and greater you is just a phone call away.
Ann Bernard is a Life and Transitional Coach and founder of Life’s Guiding Source. Coach Ann has been helping people make transitions, welcome challenges, build confidence, take big leaps and find true happiness through change. Find out more at http://www.coachingyourfuture.com.
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Posted by admin on June 16th, 2008 — Posted in Flics
Winner of numerous critical awards and a perrenial fan favorite, Friends dominated the era of “must-see-TV” on NBC. Following the lives of six New York City friends in their late-twenties - Monica Geller (Courteney Cox), Phoebe Buffay (Lisa Kudrow), Rachel Green (Jennifer Aniston), Ross Geller (David Schwimmer), Joey Tribbiani (Matt LeBlanc), and Chandler Bing (Matthew Perry) - the show rarely left the setting of the local coffee shop or one of the friends’ apartments. Nevertheless, it remained one of the funniest and most original comedies of its time.
The Friends (Season 4) DVD offers a number of hilarious episodes. In episode 80, Chandler shares a passionate kiss with Joey’s new girlfriend, Kathy. The incident threatens to ruin his friendship with Joey, but Kathy and Chandler eventually end up together. Meanwhile, Phoebe agrees to become a surrogate mother so that her brother and sister-in-law can have children. In a later episode, Rachel fixes Ross up with her boss’s niece Emily. The two hit it off and decide to get married, but during the wedding vows, Ross inadvertently calls Emily “Rachel”…
Below is a list of episodes included on the Friends (Season 4) DVD:
Episode 74 (The One with the Jellyfish) Air Date: 09-25-1997
Episode 75 (The One with the Cat) Air Date: 10-02-1997
Episode 76 (The One with the ‘Cuffs) Air Date: 10-09-1997
Episode 77 (The One with the Ballroom Dancing) Air Date: 10-16-1997
Episode 78 (The One with Joey’s New Girlfriend) Air Date: 10-30-1997
Episode 79 (The One with the Dirty Girl) Air Date: 11-06-1997
Episode 80 (The One Where Chandler Crosses the Line) Air Date: 11-13-1997
Episode 81 (The One with Chandler in a Box) Air Date: 11-20-1997
Episode 82 (The One Where They’re Going to Party!) Air Date: 12-11-1997
Episode 83 (The One with the Girl from Poughkeepsie) Air Date: 12-18-1997
Episode 84 (The One with Phoebe’s Uterus) Air Date: 01-08-1998
Episode 85 (The One with the Embryos) Air Date: 01-15-1998
Episode 86 (The One with Rachel’s Crush) Air Date: 01-29-1998
Episode 87 (The One with Joey’s Dirty Day) Air Date: 02-05-1998
Episode 88 (The One with All the Rugby) Air Date: 02-26-1998
Episode 89 (The One with the Fake Party) Air Date: 03-19-1998
Episode 90 (The One with the Free Porn) Air Date: 03-26-1998
Episode 91 (The One with Rachel’s New Dress) Air Date: 04-02-1998
Episode 92 (The One with All the Haste) Air Date: 04-09-1998
Episode 93 (The One with the Wedding Dresses) Air Date: 04-16-1998
Episode 94 (The One with the Invitations) Air Date: 04-23-1998
Episode 95 (The One with the Worst Best Man Ever) Air Date: 04-30-1998
Episode 96 (The One with Ross’s Wedding: Part 1) Air Date: 05-07-1998
Episode 97 (The One with Ross’s Wedding: Part 2) Air Date: 05-07-1998
Britt Gillette is author of The DVD Report, a blog where you can find more reviews like this one of the Friends (Season 4) DVD.
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Posted by admin on June 15th, 2008 — Posted in School of Health
Using Water When There’s an Accidental Poisoning
Poisons should be taken seriously. Many of us have lots of them around the house in the form of cleaning solutions and other household items. And — when taken by the wrong person, in the wrong form, or in the wrong dosage — prescription and over-the-counter medicines can be poisonous as well.
Quick action is essential. If someone has taken an overdose of a drug or medication, vomiting should be induced. The best way to do that is to tickle the back of the throat with a finger. Or give them a glass of warm water in which you’ve dissolved some salt, soap (a squirt of dish detergent will do the trick in most cases) or mustard. There are also medicines that are designed to make someone vomit. If you have those on hand, use them.
But if the person has swallowed a petroleum product (such as oil or gasoline) or a strong acid or alkaline product, do not induce vomiting. Instead, give them a glass of water or milk to dilute the poison. Continue giving them something to drink, but if they become nauseated, stop giving it to them.
In all cases of swallowing poison, call your local poison control center, which can give you advice about what — if anything — to do next. In many cases, home treatments will take care of the problem. But if you have any doubt in your mind, or if the individual is acting unusual, or lethargic, or having trouble breathing, get them to an emergency facility as quickly as possible.
Jim Huffman, RN specializes in natural and alternative healing therapies. His first book is ‘Dare to Be Free: How to Get Control of Your Time, Your Life, and Your Nursing Career,’ and is aimed at helping other nurses find satisfying, dynamic careers. His website is http://www.NetworkForNurses.com and his health blog is at http://www.shababa.blogspot.com
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Posted by admin on June 14th, 2008 — Posted in Baker's Dozen, Casinos + Gambling, Luck + Odds
The troubles of having to drive to a brick and mortar betting hall can be enough to give it up if you can avoid it. Certainly all those miles of driving, the troubles, and tasks tied to it will not seem worth the trouble for the mere prospect of wagering at brick and mortar betting hall, this said should you be the kind of person who is consummately fanatic about gaming halls then going virtual is sure to be the obvious solution. Visit this site for the best gambling directory skills - Try our online gaming rooms!
In fact you don’t have to leave the house to try online betting because everything will be conducted from within your household provided you have a personal computer plus a broadband connection to the internet. However, you will want to read on first because there are numerous prompts which you’ll need to familiarize yourself with concerning online betting, all the more if you happen to be lacking experience. All right dull down those hormones and turn over the words of wisdom that follows. Here is my succint layout which is intended to elucidate what to pay attention to if you are unearthing a legitimate online betting Web site. The top priority which a clever internet risker like you will look for is an online betting establishment of the category that promotes top odds. Also, read on for several supplementary hints concerning determining your virtual video poker etc establishment.
You positively must be sure to establish the virtual video poker etc establishment has a license, such as by perusing the certified authorization on the casino site. Should you fail to trace any certified authorization on a targeted virtual video poker etc establishment, don’t even think of laying with this website. After this you will probably want to review very attentively the divers promotional deals that the virtual video poker etc establishment has to offer its visitors. Beyond that, another advice would be to risk a game at the start with low amounts rather than exhaust so much it will hurt straightaway. To begin with, check the stability of this particular virtual video poker etc system prior to going for some severe injury- all the more financial ones! Finally, here is another fact concerning online card-playing. It can obviously only be to never neglect that all gambling is all about pleasurable recreation and not about money. Betting in an online casino is not a vocation, but a diversion which can make you glad and your life pleasurable.
Abiding by the recommendations elucidated, you’re at liberty to submit to the invitation of virtual video poker etc!
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Posted by admin on June 13th, 2008 — Posted in Universe Of Management
As fast as you can say business disaster, your business can go up in smoke. That’s what happened a while back to Castle Carpet One. Gone were thousands of dollars worth of equipment and carpet, plus two smaller businesses that were housed in the same building. Luckily the owners, Larry and Diane Cox, had plenty of business insurance to cover their physical losses. But they lost their most important business asset - customer records - because of failed back up systems. Rebuilding their customer base will be tough and the long-term revenue impact is hard to measure.
With disasters like hurricanes, tornados, fires, floods and terrorism, to name a few, it’s critical for small companies to have a disaster plan. And for companies with only one location, it’s even more important. One location companies have the potential to lose the entire business if disaster strikes. For a home-based business, it’s even worse. You could lose your home and your business in one swoop. Any small business owner can minimize the damage by simply having proactive strategies in place to deal with an emergency when it happens. What if:
* You arrive at your business to find it vandalized and all of your customer records missing?
* Your most critical employee becomes ill and requires an extended absence?
* Your computer hard drive (or network) crashes?
* You become the primary care giver for a sick family member?
* You become ill and can’t manage your customer commitments?
* Your business becomes inaccessible because of an emergency on your street?
What would you do?
Would your business survive? What would you grab if you had to leave your business quickly? After the emergency, how would you communicate with your employees? Customers? How long would it take to get back to business as usual?
Without a disaster plan, you’ll have a harder time getting back to work. Most businesspeople think it will just take two or three days. That’s tough to do if you have no plan for action and little money to move forward. The reality, experts say, is more like several months and at least 25 percent of businesses that experience a disaster never reopen.
But most small business owners just don’t make time for planning. We think it’s “never going to happen to us.” It could. The time to formalize a game plan for an emergency is before it happens. Do it now.
Denise O’Berry is a small business consultant located in Florida. For disaster planning tools and tips, visit http://www.myhurricanecenter.com
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Posted by admin on June 12th, 2008 — Posted in Plugs
As a mobile detailing company it is important to have some key corporate accounts where you can show up weekly and wash and detail cars for executives. One promotion you can do to help secure such accounts is to join in with the United Way in their promotion. The United Way depends on employees of large companies to donate 1% or 1.5% of their income through payroll withholding.
Many employees obviously might be reluctant to do this. So along with representatives from the United Way, you take your mobile washing rigs to the corporations and let the company managers wash the cars of the employees that agree to withhold money from their paychecks so as to make a contribution to the United Way. The employees get a real kick out of watching their bosses slave away washing their cars. And they will be doing it using your rigs. Therefore you get the Public Relations plug. Any employee agreeing to the deduction gets their car washed by their boss.
Since they are using your equipment you can be sure to block off the storm drains to prevent pollution and this gives another public relations plug to the event as completely EPA compliant. This works well and a great synergy takes over. We also recommend to have the United Way representative call all the newspapers. The employees, managers and executives love it. It’s also great P.R. for you. Who knows maybe your auto detailing company will be on the front page of your newspaper the next day. That is what usually happens to us.
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